When I came across the following picture from the Hurley’s family session it made me smile. 
It sums up how a session CAN be while attempting to pose and photograph a 2 and 5 year old. I am not an all knowing expert, and of course, there are many different styles and ways of doing things, but here are a few things that have helped me avoid too many of these moments…
Manage Expectations – This starts with ME! I tend to be a planner, and I like things go, well, as planned! I have learned to let things happen and roll with the punches. Having this state of mind before the session has helped me relax and not become anxious about not getting shots that I envisioned. Yes, I daydream in frozen frames sometimes. I know, it’s weird!
No Camera Time – In general, people don’t like having a camera in their face. Especially if they are 2! I like to spend 10-15 minutes just hanging out and getting to know people. It helps people (kids in particular) feel comfortable with you, which I believe is imperative to a successful shoot. Inquire about their day, blow bubbles out side, anything to break the ice.
Shoot, Shoot, Shoot – My personal style is capturing genuine smiles, laughter, and interactions. I do some posing, but I would much prefer capturing families moving and enjoying themselves than stiff/frozen smiles. Yes, you all know that I have been holding this smile for too long face. To achieve this, I let families play, run, and hang out while I document. My theory is shoot now, and ask questions later! With digital it is so easy to just delete images that aren’t working. So, shoot, shoot, shoot, and you are bound to freeze beautiful moments.
Have Fun! – My main goal is for my clients to have a good time. Growing up we didn’t really take family photos, and I think it’s mainly because my parents hated having their picture taken! Making a session fun helps people relax and maybe….just maybe, enjoy having their photo taken! If I see mom and dad feeling stressed about the lack of cooperation, I suggest taking a break. It helps to run off a little energy sometimes!
If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask! I like sharing (cuz sharing is caring, right?!) and so many people have helped me along this journey.
Happy Wednesday!
Nicole
P.S. – Oh, and I included this picture on their disk on images. I mean, it’s a real moment and it made ME laugh. So, I’m convinced mom and dad will appreciate it too!
by Nicole
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